About Xian (Z-eye-an)
I've been studying consciousness, reality and the mechanics of human experience for over twenty years. My friends find this either fascinating or exhausting, depending on the day.
In that time I've used what I've learned to transform almost every area of my life. Relationships, health, freedom, purpose. I travel when I want to. I work on things that matter to me. I'm genuinely happy most of the time, which I can tell you was not always the case.
I also still have a day job. I'm not a millionaire. I don't have a yacht, a private jet, or a suspicious number of photos taken in front of rented Lamborghinis. If that disqualifies me as a guide to this material then we're probably not right for each other — and I wish you well with whoever does own the Lamborghini.
What I am is someone who found a way of understanding life that actually works, tested under real conditions including some very difficult ones, and decided to share it as honestly as possible.
My Other Me is that attempt.

